A Basic Feminist Foundation: De-masculinizing and De-moralizing Men

A feminist controlled society teaches us that men are the root of all evil.  If these men are white, then another tick in the "score card" against them.  Conservative?  Even worse.  From a young age, women in our culture are taught things in light of hatred for men, such as the fallacy of "Women can have it all", "We don't need a man to be happy or successful", "Don't rely on a man to take care of you", "Use him for what he's got, get all you can from him!", "You don't need a man to be a parent", "You tell him what to do, otherwise he wont' know" and "Don't tell me my place is in the home!"  Jokes are made about "training your man" to be more compliant with demands. Living together is preferred over marriage, largely because feminists have taught our nation that it's "better for them".  Men have no permanent use for women, so likewise, they can be left out of permanent equations.

Everything from television shows to movies to country music I heard in a restaurant recently, depicts men as stupid, brainless, lazy, there for manipulating, and useless.

We know with laws surrounding "abortion rights" that men have been taken out of the equation of being a parent.  If a woman is pregnant, and doesn't "want the baby", she can abort without saying a single word to a man who may very well greatly desire to care for the baby he had responsibility in creating.

Our nation has taught it's daughters that they are to draw no distinctions between females and males.  We shuffle them out the door to unsafe places all on their own, because we refuse to identify them differently from boys.  Then, as they are on their own in college, often living as wildly as the males, they adopt feminist idealism that sets the stage for a rejection of anything to do with masculinity.  They idolize Marxist leaders, liberal ideologies, and warped and non-understood views of founders of feminism; neglecting that the founders have hate:  hate for men, hate for God, hate for freedom and a hate for God's blessing of marriage, as their own core.

In movies and TV shows, dads are generally the bumbling idiot, while mom runs the show.  Many times, she is a corporate she-male, who has to come home and "fix" whatever hair-brained schemes "dumb ole' dad" had during his time with the child.  It's almost like a play on the simple and pure humor of yesterday that we found in innocent shows such as "I love Lucy".  Of course, now you can't show mom that way, you must depict dad as the idiot.

"As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths" (Isaiah 3:12)

In a culture of reducing men to occasional sperm donors, and honorary "child watchers" so women can live whatever way feminists have guaranteed them, what is happening to our men and our boys?  When boys are taught from a young age that their role is less important than the role of almighty "princess women", they will certainly believe it.  When they hear women badmouthing the men in their lives, hear it on the radio, and see it on the TV and big screen, will they possibly desire to live up to more?  Why would they?

"A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger." (Proverbs 15:1)

If we've made the role of men disposable in a feminist culture, then the role of boys is simply to play sports well, and watch sports, and have hobbies and toys.  Then they are expected to continue to be boys, de-masculinized and ready for failure. They are largely expected to grow up to sow wild oats, party, go to college, and settle into whatever panty-waist position of pee-on co-pants wearer, their "partner" (don't call them wives) may desire them to be at some point in the future.  To what else will they aspire?  They learn, "Real men don't sit in church, don't read their Bibles, don't take a leadership role among haughty women in our culture, and don't demand respect from women."  They fear women, and feminists have taught them to do just that.

We are forever damaging our nation of leaders among men because of the feminist movement, the birth control and IVF culture, and the "equality in all ways" ideology.  Women and men most certainly are equal in humanity, in our worth, and in our value.  However, we are different from one another in ways so vast, only God can explain it.   Feminists won't admit that difference, though.  They would rather pretend the male gender is disposable, simply because it doesn't fit into the feminist, Sanger ideology and societal plan to include them.

Badmouthing men, and de-masculinizing them may be the common order of business for the liberal women of today, their daughters, and the results can be seen in their male children.  A generation of men-the first truly born from feminism, have grown without fathers, (either any present, or any who wish to stand up and lead) and learned to "get what is due them" in their entitlement society.  Living on the government handout, and not being the least bit ashamed of their laziness, their ignorance or their irresponsibility is the order of the day.  A man would once be ashamed if he was unable to provide fully for his family.  Now, he stands in the checkout line, blissfully equipped for the job of throwing Fruit Loops on the checkout belt, while his "partner" wields a government cash card.  He's got his Xbox at home, his beer and his chips.  He's got no clue whatsoever that this is a degradation to his very core.

We spend so much time in our society wondering, "Where have all the good guys gone?"  I'll tell you where they've gone.  They've regressed into forever little boys that feminists wanted them to be.  Then, they get their proverbial cake, and can eat it, too.  They can claim there are "no good men left", so that they can have their free sex, their access to birth control and abortion, and live on the government handout, while never having to surrender their childish, selfish and anti-God feminist ideals.  "There are no good men left", they say.  "See my man?  He's in the bedroom playing video games."  They love playing both sides of the equation, and they have no desire to have a nation of strong men.

If you are wondering where all the good men have gone, try treating the "good men" in your life with a little respect!  Try reinforcing in your sons what their role is in the future of their own lives, our nation, and God's Kingdom.  Let them know, there are still some anti-feminist women out there who want them to be men, who actually admire real men of integrity and responsibility and all that it entails!  Remind them with your actions and your role modeling, that some of us understand what they are up against! Uphold a policy of not contributing to the feminization of the boys and men of our culture, and reinforcing that men are necessary, and valued, and that they have a role unique from that of women.

Don't demonize boys for being born with inherent differences from girls!  Boys by nature are different.  Don't try to take all the rough out of them, and feminize them.  This roughness, when tempered with self-control and strong moral character, is what builds the great men of our nation.  As a society, we must stop demonizing the male traits and characteristics of being provider, protector and leader.  In your small world of your own family and community, uphold liberties and freedoms that allow men to be men, husbands, fathers and role models.  Protect the Constitution, which allows for the pursuit of happiness for not just liberal feminists and morally degenerate males, but the strong males of our day!

Know that feminism cannot co-habitate with life and with strong marriages and foundations, and it's handiwork can be traced to racists and eugenicists such as Margaret Sanger.  It is not a panacea.  It is a nation destroyer.   Yet, feminists will not admit they are a large part of the very reason the bricks of this nation are giving way-faster than many of us had thought they would.

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About Andrea
I'm a Christian who is married and madly in love with the husband God gave me, who works as a CPA while I stay home to homeschool and mother our eight children, whom we count as blessings, not burdens. An "anti-feminist", I enjoy making our home a sanctuary; a place to truly enjoy being..not just a landing spot. My hobbies are the art of homemaking, natural medicine, old movies and gardening. I Live in Northern Idaho where Bibles, homeschooling, large families and guns are welcome...for now..
  • citchus

    Women are told to believe that they can have a world without men and continue to survive. The trouble is most of these women don't or haven't read a bible, and if they had at one point, claiming it doesn't work, don't know how to use a book first of all not less understand it second of all.
    Women are man's help mate, because God saw that it was not good for a man to be alone. Women are like the lollipop a dentist patient gets after his appointment, something sweet but yet it serves to deter the thought from the pain. Or something in general. Not to be a Bevis and butthead looking like me.

  • KarenWI

    wow, This is a great message in that it spells things out pretty clearly. I, for one, am an independant (by life's circumstances) woman who respects and likes men who are still men, and treat a lady like a lady.

  • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/5NQZRTMPHX5UQRTGK3ULD7XEKA Joe M

    A message to the men:

    Respect is commanded* not granted. Command respect and to hell with the feminists. If you do your job correctly, there won't be any to bother us - man or woman.

    * command as in tour de force

  • redneck4Christ

    While I commend Mrs. Roltgen for putting her finger on the
    heart of an issue that is ripping our society apart, I cannot commend her for
    posting it nor for all its content. It is a grave irony that she has become that which she condemns. That a seemingly fine Christian lady who has defended manhood so admirably can be foundationally wrong is a sad indicator that churchianity is one of the key driving forces in wrecking our society.

    This statement belies the Word of God and underpins the destruction of our society by the whitewashed feminism of churchianity as well as secular feminism: “Women and men most certainly are equal in humanity, in our worth, and in our value.” The Word of God tells us that while we are equally heirs of salvation (Gal 3:28), we are not “equal in humanity”. Rather there was an order to Creation – man was created first, then woman. Man was made from dust and woman was made from man. Man is the image and glory of God and woman is the glory of man. And this has bearing on how women and men should relate to each other. (1 Cor 11:7f; Gen 2:19-23; 1 Tim 2:8f)

    The Godly woman is of great worth (Prov 31:10), not for making herself known by engaging and instructing society (1 Tim 2:9-12; 1 Pet 3:4-6) but because she makes her husband known in the gates (Prov 31:11, 12, 23).

    • Andrea Roltgen

      I respect your view. However, women are called to instruct the younger women (Titus 2:5) and my post was intended to edify women in an era of promotion of feminism. I decry all things feministic, and do disagree with you that women are the glory of man. Women are the glory of God Almighty, as we are the bearers of His Kingdom of children. All of God's people (those who are saved by the redeeming blood of Jesus Christ) are equal in God's eyes, and He creates us all worthy of a place in the Kingdom.

      Women were created to be the gatekeepers of home; the very foundation of a Godly altar. Again, I am not attempting to lead men, as your reference in 1 Tim 2:9-12 and 1 Pet 3:4-6 cites, but rather to call on the younger women who are the future wives and mothers to wake up to the ways they undermine men as the leaders of our nation, churches, homes and community.

      While you attempt to extrapolate feminism from my post, you did not make a good case. Additionally, your order of listed Creation is not at all opposed to my position; but rather you wish to find contention in my post. From this post, you are certainly unable to discern my conduct and submissive nature, but rather must go by the words I have written; and you have proven nothing of what I have written to be feministic. There is no pleasing someone with your point of view.

      Women indeed are instructed to not have leadership, teaching or dominion over man, but are in no way called to never open their mouths to stand up for what is right and just in society. I see our society falling apart due to feminism; women having jezebel spirits and objecting to their roles.

      I will not engage you further, as I cannot be sure of your motives. From your past commentary, it appears you like discord among Christians, which is far different from solid theology and doctrine. My husband was pleased with my article, and approved of it's publication. Since he, and God alone is who I seek to serve, I will stand by my words.

      Thank you for your comment, and may God richly bless you.

    • redneck4Christ

      Now let's take stock of your reply in light of your article.

      You are not feminist because you say you " decry all things feministic"
      and no man had better step up and say otherwise unless he wants to incur your wrath and ridicule -- especially not a white man or even worse, a conservative.

      "...do disagree with you that women are the glory of man." You are not just disagreeing with me on this one -- " For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God, but woman is the glory of man." (1 Co 11:7 ESV). So go ahead and tell me how you know more than the Bible. Or maybe there is some convoluted interpretation that makes the passage than what it plainly states.

      "Women were created to be the gatekeepers of home; the very foundation of a Godly altar." The Levitical priesthood were the gatekeepers and tenders of the Altar in the Temple of God. So are you saying you are the priest in your
      home and that is the proper model for women? If so, your Bible obviously has a lot of pages missing.

      "...your order of listed Creation is not at all opposed to my position..." It is not my order of Creation -- it is God's Order. And Paul cites this order as the
      reason women are NOT the human equals of men. They are rather, as you dispute, the glory of man (see verse quote and discussion above) and to be treated with honor as the weaker (weaker -- not equal) vessel (1 Pet 3:7). Apparently it is "Essentialist feminism:[that] Focuses on “true” “biological” differences between men and women, arguing that women are essentially different from men but equal in value (i.e.,“separate but equal”). (http://sparkcharts.sparknotes.com/womens/womens/section4.php) And this is what you have done in your article by refuting the Biblical notion that women are NOT equal in humanity while calling on society to recognize the differences in boys and girls. So to paraphrase -- give them a break but do
      not accord to boys and men their God-given roles.

      "Women indeed are instructed to not have leadership, teaching or dominion over man, but are in no way called to never open their mouths to stand up for what is right and just in society..."

      One of us is confused -- you, Paul, the Word of God, and/or me. At the beginning of your rebuttal, you indicated, " my post was intended to edify women in an era of promotion of feminism." And Paul, carried along by the Holy Spirit, wrote, " Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet." (1 Tim 2:11–12 ESV).

      So where do you get your idea of what is right and just? My idea of "right and just" and who should stand up for what is "right and just" and who should remain quiet and submissive has been revealed to you and me in the Word of God.

      "I will not engage you further..." So you are just going to allow me to have the last word? If that really happens, you will blow my mind.

      I pray you really will commit your life to serving God according to all of His
      Holy Word and not just the parts you like. And may you be richly blessed in that.

  • Alexs Wifey

    Wow. Couldn't have said it more perfect. Very good job. God bless.

  • /.murphy

    The claims of this author are not true everywhere. You can safely ignore them. This is merely a reactionary, fearmongering opinion.

    • KarenWI

      I agree with what is written...those without these values will not want to see the truth or another side of things..

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ken-Deemer/100000104698288 Ken Deemer

    Many of our pastors are afraid to say anything about this threat you have exposed so well Andrea. I am sure most of your readers have heard pastor "joke" that he is going to be locked out of the bedroom or he will be sleeping on the sofa. Well if he is, is wife is SINNING! We are NOT to let the Sun go down on our wrath nor are we to withhold intimacy from our husband or wife unless it is for prayer and fasting (1 Corinthians 7:3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the
    wife unto the husband.
    4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the
    husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the
    5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time,
    that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that
    Satan tempt you not for your incontinence

    (Of course, if a man or woman is physically ill a man or woman who loves their spouse would not demand intimacy)
    I contend that too many pastors are afraid to talk about feminism because too many women in the church are feminist today and they are afraid donations will dry up and the women would go to another church. As a result, our churches carter to women and leave men out of everything other then just to serve women. I believe these pastors have gotten things backwards. If they catered to the men, more men would start going to that church and as a result, they would get more women too.
    Pastor Ken Deemer
    Director Shattered Men

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ken-Deemer/100000104698288 Ken Deemer

    Andrea, thank you so much for this article. I have written many of the same things for Shattered Men. I also think it is important to ask how did we come to this point. Many do not know that the government is encouraging this. They do not want strong MEN who will protect their families against all enemies, including our own government. In our time, if a man does assume his GOD given authority in the home, he can be and often is charged with domestic violence. I have had Christian marriage counselors (both men and women) say they do not teach that a wife is to submit to her own husband because "too many people misunderstand it. While we can NOT throw something out because we misunderstand it, we need to educate regarding the proper meaning. Submission has to be offered, it can not be demanded. This brings me to another major reason feminist have taken over...our CHURCHES. The Jezebel spirit has taken over most of even our Biblical churches. I have written but this here:


    Revive Our Hearts with Nancy Leigh DeMoss ...

    is a very good resource for women who want to be the woman GOD wants them to be instead of being a feminist puppet.

    There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death. Proverbs 16:25

  • http://twitter.com/DGuardian2 D. Guardian

    I am the man, I can do as I please and there's nothing my woman can do about it, if she knows whats good for her. (my wife gave me permission to say so, so there)

  • ireAmerica

    The plot thickens...

    As I grew up, the metric for mortgage payments was one-quarter of household income. Fathers earned that income while mothers cared for that household and nurtured the children. Traditional roles, both REAL work, not to argue about division of labor.

    But currency devaluation accelerated, and to maintain standard of living, some mothers began entering the workplace. This situation made men not "worth" so much, as coincidentally feminism began its rise. Remember, erosion of the family structure is employed by tyranny.

  • John March

    "This roughness, when tempered with self-control and strong moral character, is what builds the great men of our nation." Amen to that
    Read more: http://freedomoutpost.com/2012/12/a-basic-feminist-foundation-de-masculinizing-and-de-moralizing-men/#ixzz2E07cyDZH

  • KittyKittyKit

    It's okay, folks. According to the Bible, a full 50% of the earths population will be killed in less than 7 years once the Anti-Christ is revealed as a bad boy. Most of those deaths will be men and boys.............women can't get along with "each other". Even THEY can't put up with each others "shallow" feline, catty, back-stabbin' and back-biting ways. Talk about "hell on earth".............wait til most of the men are gone.